Getting back to good

*heather* 2010-11-18 05:48:57 ET What I have learned in the last 3 days: -Men don't like to talk about things that stress them out. Seems strange to me, but whatever. -Trying to make them tell you what's wrong just turns them into douchy viking monsters -Matt loves me enough not to be an asshole to me when I'm screaming at him. And he loves me enough to forgive me for freaking out on him. I hope that we continue to get better. It's been a weird 3 days.

CaterpillarGirl 2010-11-18 09:50:22 ET -Men don't like to talk about things that stress them out. Seems strange to me, but whatever. -Trying to make them tell you what's wrong just turns them into douchy viking monsters Honestly, if a dude doesnt shut down when he's pissed off [initially], they're probably a gigantic pussy. Ive found that, especially with my current, it's best to ask what's wrong & back off until they decide to vent. I mean, that could just be me, though. I feel like women are more prone to be all OMFGEVERYTHINGWTFYEGODSJESUSHCHRIST when we're pissy. I was actually having this conversation with a friend of mine a few weeks ago.

*heather* 2010-11-18 11:36:36 ET yeah see i guess i've dated alot of pussies lol...cause all my exes have been the whiny type. that's why i was offended at first by matt's behavior. we talked for the first time last night in 2 days cause we freaked out on each other. i hope it keeps improving :/

CaterpillarGirl 2010-11-18 12:44:09 ET It's a give and take thing, especially from a distance. Trust me, I feel you.

*heather* 2010-11-19 05:09:25 ET yeah...we've been trying to get back to our normal routine and i've learned that not bringing anything related up is a good thing lol. it gets better by the day =] and i can't wait to see him in 36 days...

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