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2004-09-25 15:16:19 ET
I'd say to Mr. person-in-the-story that he doesn't have friends. He has amiable acquaintences who use him for fun or company (because you know, if you're alone, that makes you a loser, of course). Maybe your relationship was fantastic once. Something like this should NEVER have happened and I, personally, would rather be alone than put up with ASSHOLES like that. People like that make me seethe inside. And that's why I AM alone right now. If I were there, I'd make sure you weren't alone, but I'm not, so all I can do is...I don't know. Tell you that you should do what's right for you. And also, to expect some standards. Standards keep you healthy.
I don't know the guys, I don't know what y'all have been through, but I do know what it's like when friends treat you in a way you should never be treated, but you stay with them because you're so terrified of being alone. It's natural not to want to be alone.
And for God's sake, it is NOT your fault. Just because someone is pissed at you and tells you that you did something wrong, certainly doesn't mean that they're right. In this case, they aren't. You can certainly apologize for anything that you honestly feel you did wrong, but other than that...maybe you should just leave it at that. Doesn't matter what you might have done, they should have supported you and done the right thing. At least you went back to check with them about the ride, for their sakes, even though they were being jackholes.
Maybe it doesn't have to be all doom and gloom for you. Maybe it doesn't have to be "this was unnaceptable so it's over." But if you really talk to them and they still tell you that you're wrong and refuse to admit that what they did was wrong...well...I don't know. Maybe it's time to re-examine what kind of friendship it is. Just don't...bend over because they're righteously pissed. That doesn't mean that they're right.
I also have a question for you!! You love Donny Darko...what's the name of the "theme song" of that movie? I love that song. |
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