shit I've been meaning to put in here...

Punk Kitten 2005-10-24 13:04:35 ET What I having been meaning to put in here. Well this is the deal yo! lol. The shinitz that has been going down. All last month Thomas and I were fuckin around. He was staying at my house alot doing alot of this for me and with me. Apparently I took things one way and he took them another.... Well we dont hang out for a week cause I'm busy moving my dads friends into our house....and well call up thomas on the weekend...and he has a girlfriend. And I'm like " WHAT THE FUCK!?"....this girl I went to school with. Shes dirty( they called her "scary sherri"),shes pregnant, shes supposely still dating..and definetly still lives with the babies daddy, and shes a crazy bitch. Anyway...I know so much shit about her..people are still filling me in day by day. Thomas and this girl do nothing, not physical contact at all. She wont tell the babies daddy that she is dating thomas either, says they are "just friends". Thomas is being a fuckin idiot and cant see the signs..and I can't let him in on shit, cause then it makes me look like the jealous ex. Anyway...thomas and I talked I told him I still have feelings for him...basically and gayly confessed my love for him....yea I'm a dork. And soo here I am today...Thomas has a girlfriend...but sees me and does more shit with me than her.....theres still the flirting.......and I'm not sure how to take this one...but I will tell you and someone can tell me...saturday night we had a party here for my brother....and we were all feeling pretty good.....well I went in and crashed about 4am, thomas comes in 2 hours later and crawls in bed with me....thats the extent of it....but how should I take that....he knows how I feel for him....knows I still want to be with him....there were plenty of other places to sleep at that time and he sleeps with me...how should I take it....any one have anything to tell me with this....help!?...please...

prophetsam 2005-10-24 13:28:12 ET It sounds like he is being confused, but chose to crawl in bed with you because that is where he feels "comfortable" and "safe"... There's ALOT more to it, but hard to psychoanalyze with so little info... heh

Punk Kitten 2005-10-24 13:40:00 ET Its pretty fucked up..this is a situation that I seen my friends get into and swore that I would never allow myself to.

Punk Kitten 2005-10-24 13:45:38 ET We dated for awhile and then broke up on the 4th of july. We took about a week and started talking again and hanging out. It looked to alot of people that we were still dating. We had the flirting still and all of that. Then sept. 10th we were at a party and we decided that it was just going to be the two of us in this tent...and we were flirting all night and one thing led to another. Then it went alittle bit longer..we still had the flirting and whatnot....then he stayed at my house a couple of days..and everynight we went to bed together..and everynite we had sex...he went home for a couple of days and then came back to my house for a couple of days..and same thing happened. My dads friends family is moving in with us....so when I took him home..he knew I was going to be busy all week and wouldn't be able to talk to him much. I call him on a monday to see if he'd want to hang out one day..and he said he wouldn't be able to stay because he was waiting for a job to call him..I was cool with that. then on a friday.. I had my bro call him to see if he wanted to hang out....and thats when his "aunt" told me he was out with a girl..and his sister told me she thought they were dating....I played my little game...my brother got the info outta him and I got pissed.....well them we started hanging out again..and ..yea...

prophetsam 2005-10-24 14:23:36 ET Sounds like he can't make up his mind, and that you're a little confused on how things should be, as well....

Punk Kitten 2005-10-24 15:30:11 ET yes....i am..

prophetsam 2005-10-24 15:40:17 ET just always remember one thing... "To thyne own self be true"

Punk Kitten 2005-10-24 15:47:11 ET yes..thank you for reading a talking to me with this...is nice to have a guys opinion also..

prophetsam 2005-10-24 15:55:21 ET You're more than welcome, in fact, it's my pleasure! ...but as for the "guy's oppinion", you're getting a little more than that, LOL! Not only is there my backround in Psych, but the fact that I grew up with 6 older sisters, hehehehe. So you won't get a typical "guy's oppinion" from me. =P

Punk Kitten 2005-10-24 15:58:27 ET lol...awesome. thats good then. haha..

Punk Kitten 2005-10-24 15:58:46 ET I need to talk to someone who knows what they are talking about..lol

prophetsam 2005-10-24 16:24:29 ET LOL! Dealing with fucked up relationships? You picked the 'Guru', LOL!

Punk Kitten 2005-10-25 07:43:21 ET LOL! too bad you don't make money off of this...you'd be making alot off of me. I've been getting the shit end of the stick lately when it comes to relationships.

prophetsam 2005-10-25 15:08:55 ET Yeah, and too bad I can't put taking care of my friends while 'flipping out' or 'ODing' on my Nursing Resume, too... LOL!

Punk Kitten 2005-10-27 16:20:57 ET LOL! yea...hahah

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