2004-03-14 17:30:02 ET

whut do u do when you no longer like one of your friends?

and she has you to her highest regards. and loves you so much.


2004-03-14 17:36:39 ET

um weigh your dislikes to your likes
if you still keep her around she probubly has some nice qualities? and it seems like you still care about her.

2004-03-14 17:38:09 ET

i do.

but i cant stand her.

she is soo rude, she takes advantage of me.

she get soo mad about the lamest things.

and she has no sense of human emotion. she is completely dense.

2004-03-14 17:38:59 ET

can't help ya. clueless on the subject. just talk to her less and less, until you're not talking at all. usually works.

2004-03-14 17:42:49 ET

Well, I'm in the same boat as Ben, but if it really frustrates/upsets you, I would say have a serious talk with that person, especially since you were/are good friends.

2004-03-14 17:45:04 ET

well u see thats the thing i cant talk to her i have tried soo much.

she is completey fukked in the head. and doesnt seem to comprehend or absorb ANYTHING.

at all. and its becoming where all my other friends dont even wanna be around her. but like i said she is soo in love with me and shit.

that it whud destroy her if i left.

gah.

2004-03-14 17:46:26 ET

I had a friend like that once...I just ignored him till he went away...which took forever.

That is a very tough situation.

2004-03-14 17:50:32 ET

well you also have to know that i live in a very very small town.

and its hard to avoid ppl.

oh and sux cuz i dont think i wanna be friends withmy best friend anymore either. he is just not the person i thought he was.

2004-03-14 17:56:24 ET

well, my friend lived about 10 minutes from my house, and would walk here.

I dunno what to tell you! I just wish you luck, not much help though

2004-03-14 17:56:48 ET

pretty much the exact same thing happened/ is happening to me.
talking is not the answer TRUST ME. these people (if you could call them that) dont understand other people. mine was incredibly hurtful and would go out of their way to find out why i "hated" them. it turned ugly and no one can stand them anymore.
i dont know how to help you other than to agree with insertnamehere even in a small town. break contact slowly and try to stay as far away as possible.

2004-03-14 19:17:50 ET

after she pays me back the 180$ she owes me i will try.

2004-03-14 19:36:56 ET

oh jeez.

some people suck. really hard.

2004-03-14 21:12:15 ET

indeeed.

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