how do you confront people?

Wasted Youth 2004-04-04 13:47:25 ET the new boi is acting strange since the other night. and i really want to fix it, and talk to him, but he seems distant, and i am not too sure how to approach him. i sense that alot of it has to do with boi #1 and he probably thinks there is something goin on with us (just like everyone else) and A big part of it is my drug use, and my reaction to the bitch who was all over him the other night. i think its alot of uncomfortable strange non confrontational subjects. so how the fukk are we suppose to talk about it and work thru it if we cant even talk about it. i can tell we are both really coinfused, but i think he may have given up. kinda seems that way. i am goin to cry. help. i cant lose him. this is so junior high i am sick of it.

vidasonica 2004-04-04 18:43:35 ET WEll, figure that if neither of you actually bring anything up at all then you will end up putting unresolved closure on this and creating a worse problem which is lack of communication. When difficult problems like this come along it is best to suck your gutt in and just let it allllll out in a comofortable manner without sounding alarming. Just talk to the boy and sound compassionate. Friendships are lost without any talk.

amandacore 2004-04-04 19:03:12 ET dudette, i completely agree with vida. you have to talk it out.<3

Wasted Youth 2004-04-04 20:41:34 ET funny thing is, is that when i saw him after work he was all blushy and stuff. boiz are werse than gurls sometimes.

amandacore 2004-04-05 10:05:49 ET hahah. well, when you're a girl like us, you know how to NOT act all silly like a girl. lol.

Wasted Youth 2004-04-05 10:31:09 ET yup. mos def.

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