theres only certain people i would lend money too... its hard..cuz sometimes i need to barrow money and i would like people to be there for me. of course i pay back =)
that's the thing...i'll buy things for people, like tickets, dinner, etc.. people dont seem to mind reciprocating in buying me things in return, as opposed to handing me over some money. and visa versa...i guess it's all the same, but mehhh
oh yea..i pretty much do the same thing...dinner, movie and what not and not caring...i have a few friends were we do that back and forth and its nice...but they're certain friends i dont like doing that to..cuz i know they take advantage of me knowing i have a job and money and they accidently dont "have enough"
i guess you just have to watch and learn who you can do those types of things with.