Baby post 2
2005-09-21 10:45:09 ET

I think I'm going to keep my baby. I think that's what I need to do. I'm ready and whether David is or not...I know he'll help least a little.

2005-09-21 10:46:05 ET

*hugs* im sooo proud of you *squeezes just enough for the hug to be classified as 'a bear hug' without harming the bebe..hehe)

2005-09-21 10:46:56 ET

I can't say I'm overwhelmingly thrilled...but I'll deal :)

2005-09-21 11:12:03 ET

i hope everything goes alright for you. I understand the whole- pregnant and not really ready thing. But if you do keep the baby, after s/he is born- you wouldn't take it back for the world! There's support here if you need it! -huggers-

2005-09-21 12:08:13 ET

I agree w/microcosm.

2005-09-21 12:39:39 ET

thank you :)

2005-09-21 12:45:09 ET


2005-09-21 15:01:30 ET

he was ready when he got you pregnant. If he's not, he will be, i hope.

2005-09-21 18:48:25 ET

yeah seriously, although before you make your final choice you really have to look at whats best for the kid. are you ready (in all aspects) to take care of another being.

2005-09-21 18:57:01 ET

exactly...and i have to consider David, it's his too, not just mine.

2005-09-22 06:56:09 ET

You better make him aware that he doesnt have a choice in this matter. This baby is just as much his as it is yours. He has to buck up and be a father. Dont you dare let him get away with not helping you raise this baby.

2005-09-22 10:45:02 ET

wow demoriar, little touchy?

2005-09-22 12:49:56 ET

yeah dude like totally

I work in a Divorce Law Office

So i guess my opinion is as good as the next person in line


2005-09-22 12:54:06 ET

didnt say you couldnt state your opinion, i was just saying to get off your soap box.

2005-09-22 12:56:39 ET

No thanks.... i like my soap box.

2005-09-22 13:21:15 ET

good luck with that then.

2005-09-22 18:40:15 ET

Don't feel bad about feeling like you aren't ready. You are never ready for kids even when you plan it how can you really be ready for something that can go so many ways?

I had a kiddo when I was 15 and she's 11 not but I can tell you if i found out tomorrow i was preggers again I sure as hell wouldnt feel ready for it. So really what you feel is pretty natural.

2005-09-22 18:41:04 ET

did you give her up for adoption?

2005-09-22 18:42:34 ET

Nope i've been raising her with the help of my mother. She just turned 11 last week and the father is not involved which is sad to say better for her in the long run.

2005-09-22 18:43:12 ET

well hopefully i can be as strong as you. :)

2005-09-22 18:44:59 ET

Seriously as long as you have a good head on your shoulders and a good support system youll be fine really they aren't all that hard to take care of especially when they are little once they learn the word no your in a little more trouble.

2005-09-22 18:48:52 ET


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