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2005-02-20 21:16:40 ET After the night out with Paul and coming home to find that Lenny was parked downt he street waiting for us...Melissa has decided (hopefully for 100% sure now) that she's getting a divorce. And Lenny informed her tonight that he is going to fight her for custody, after he tells her he doesn't want to be in the girls lives anymore. See he has stages, stage one is "pissed off mad" stage. and stage two is "cry and whine like a baby" stage then it's back to pissed off stage, he goes back and forth, it's very predictable. So he argues with her for a while. Then he hangs up cause he was pissed off. So she calls him back and leaves him a message that if he doesn't give Angie (her sis) her stuff (she let him borrow some movies and her dumbass job sent her W2 to his house) tomorrow that she's going to get a police officer and come get it herself. So ten min later he's calling back crying and whining cause the bitching and threatening didnt' work. So he proceeds to threaten some more when the whining doesn't work. saying that he's going to fight her for custody of the kids and prove to the court that she is an unfit mom for these reasons: 1. She was out til 6 am with me friday night. 2. She is in an unstable environment with the children. 3. Olivia's doctor said her most recent bladder infection was from "poor hygiene" andwhatever lese reasons he has that i can't remember right now. ok and here's our rebuttle... 1. How does he know where we were? There are no records of our actions taht night. Neither of us used any type of credit card. So for all he knows we had just left the house to get milk or something for the kids and then came back. And the kids were taken care of so even if she did go out, mom was here to take care of them all night and they were in bed anyway. 2. These kids are far better off here then they were at their house. They have constant supervision, food EVERYWHERE (haha you should see our fridge and pantry), and beds to sleep in. Where at his house Olivia has no bed and i can guarentee he doesnt' have the fridge or pantry stocked with anything. 3. Olivia's "poor hygiene" comes fromt he fact that she's 5y ears old and barely fits on a toilet seat, so when she wipes she' hasnt' quite perfected the technique yet. And we have taken care of that problem by getting her some wet wipes to use with the toilet paper so no problem there anymore. Plus had he not caused so much grief around her (plus we are pretty sure he is telling her lies and stuffa bout us) she wouldn't be pissing her pants. ooooh and he tells melissa that he saw us on the main road and turned around to follow us back to the house friday night. WHATEVER! no one was behind me when i pulled into my neighborhood and yes i do notice cause normally they ride my ass when i turn in cause it's a quick turn off the main road into my neighborhood onto my street. and he was facing the main road, not the cul de sac. he forgets my road is a friggin cul de sac, so he oculdnt' have come from anywhere but there. dumbass. so yeah she's geting a divorce now. and she told paul tonight in an email how she felt about him. she is sooo freaking out haha. poor girl. she's like how i was in high school with this guy i liked. haha. but now i have someone UBER better so i'm all good, no worries for me :D hehe. but she told him that no matter what she really watns to make sure they have their friendship above all else she just wanted to tell him how she felt casue she knew if she didn't do it now she'd never would and then it would haunt her forever. but ANYHOOT. ahah not that anyone cares about this but i had to vent. so that is the status of my life right now...complete and total chaos. much love all |
