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2005-05-13 22:09:25 ET
ok..gonna be a long response..so might as well sit down.
well for one thing, melissa needs to realize that olivia and emilee are HER kids, not yours. She is the one that had sex and conceieved them thus her responisbility not yours. I think that is what bothers me the most about the whole situation, is that melissa puts em in your care when they are HER kids! There are girls at work that are like 18 and have like 1 yr old children who are more responsible with their kids then melissa is with her two kids.
I know she has been through alot, but she needs to see what she is putting you and your mom through with the way she acts. Those kids are like your main source of stress. lemme rephrase that, olivia is your main cause of stress, but your being more of a mom to them and taking more responsibility then it seems melissa takes under normal circumstances. I like melissa, dont get me wrong, its just that people that dont show responsibility just urk me beyond the point of staying sain (might be spelled wrong, who knows).
now, onto the nap thing. I like naps...everyone likes naps..but when someone else has allowed you to live in their house while you get on ur feet again, u dont just drop and take a nap without taking care of kids first. put them down for a nap, make sure they are down, and if there is someone else around say nicely 'if they get up before i do wake me up ok?' bc it is the other persons responsibility to take care of your kids bc you just up and decide you want a nap.
I just dont think melissa is thinking straight ya know? i dont mean to sound like an ass, but it just totally makes me sick the way she lets those kids stress you all out, when its her kids. you and your mom take better care of em then she does.
grrrrrrrr is all that have to say....grrrrrr. |
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