| Wow...my week in a nutshell (really...really long..gotta vent so sorry) 2004-12-14 10:50:28 ET |
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Ok, so this week is the week of finals at school. So last Thursday I decided to go ahead and come home for the weekend so I could look for some stuff for extra credit in some of my classes.
So mom comes to pick me up and all is well.
We talk some in the car about my cousin Melissa and her husband Lenny, they are having problems a lot lately, so she was explaining some stuff to me about what her and Melissa had talked about the day before.
Friday morning I woke up at 10:30 cause I had to get up at 11 anyway cause we were going up north for lunch with my mom's friend and ex-boss Cindy. So I sat there and thought "well I'm going to write Melissa a letter about how I feel about her relationship and some of the things that I see" So I get about 2 1/2 pages into it and mom walks in my room, with the phone on her ear..with this look on her face like she just saw a ghost or something.
And she sits down on my bed and says "I think...Melissa is packing her things...and leaving Lenny......today..." and I just give her this blank stare back and go..."ooooookkkkk" haha. Then I show her that I had been writing Melissa that letter and she just laughs and goes "well guess you're being a little bit psychic today"
So we plan on just going to lunch and then meeting up with Melissa at her house later, cause she had a lot she had to do still. So we go to lunch and then call her on our way back and she informs me that her sister is on her way over to the house and that her brother-in-law and a guy she used to work with have already been to the house and taken the dining room chairs and table....WTF?!
The original plan was..."i'm just going to take some clothes and some toys for the girls", well when her sister found out about it she made sure melissa took EVERYTHING she wanted out of the house now because if she didn't she probably wouldn't get it later.
So by 9:30 that night we had cleared out the WHOLE house. I kid you not, we took everything but the couch downstairs, the bedroom stuff cause it was his moms, the entertainment center and his big screen tv, and the table in the kitchen. and some food that was already opened..oh and his clothes cause what are we going to do with those? haha.
What brought this on? The night before Melissa had gone to a christmas party for her work, he didn't go ..for once he stayed home with the kids *gasps and grabs chest and falls over* that never happens. So when she got home, she of course had had some stuff to drink cause she NEVER gets to have fun...and he said something to her (not sure what) and her response was "you know what i'm tired of this bullshit, why don't you just leave?!" and he said "well I would, but then i'd have to pay you child support and allimony" (not sure how to spell that) her "oh so you are only with me so you don't have to pay me money?!" ...so they argued some more and finally melisa said fine i'm leaving and he said when and she said well i guess tomorrow...so she decided to leave.
but of course the controlling bastard that he is didn't think she'd actually leave, and he definitely didn't think she'd take the whole damn house haha.
so we made sure she didn't really talk to him for the next few days, til sunday night..he showed up at our house. which he had called her mom and dads and her sisters, and showed up at her sisters house over the weekend but hadn't made ANY effort to come to our house, but what happened was he came over to her mom and dads while we were there, and he showed up, he wanted her to "look him in the eye, take his ring back, and tell him she doesn't love him anymore" BULLSHIT! she doens't need to talk to him period cause when she does he drags her down withhim and that's crap.
so he showed up at the house monday night, and i answered the door and told him that no he couldn't see her or the kids right now cause it was past 9 and the kids were in bed, and no i'm not waking them up because they don't need to be a part of this right now. meanwhile Olivia (4 year old) is upstairs upset cause she sees her daddy's car and doesn't know why she can't see him. so he starts friggin crying, ok i'm not falling for his bullshit. but anyway...she finally pushed herself past me and went out ther to talk to him, he had her crying and we got her back inside cuase it was friggin cold outside and she's out there barefoot. so he left..mom told him if he wants to talk to her to go home calm down and call. after he leaves...he calls at a payphone down the street,they didn't hear the phone and i had just gotten olivia calmed down and bam..doorbell rings twenty thousand times, and he set off his car alarm to get our attention..it was 11 at night during the week, asshole! so mom goes out there and tells him to go home calmd own and leave because he's upseting his daughter. and he's about to wake the other one.
so eh leaves and calls back and they stay on the phone for bout 2 more hours..then melissa can't sleep. monday night he called our house 7 friggin times. left 7 messages and one of them was "if you dont' call me i'm not going to work tomorrow"
she has filed for legal seperation and we are trying so hard to get her to realize that he is STILL controlling her. and you know if he wants to go get help and then maybe they get back together that's fine, but right now he needs to get that help and not worry about getting back together until he gets help.
sorry i'm frustrated and it's pissing me off that he's still controlling her even though she's living with us now. and if he keeps up his calling and his coming by mom is going to get a restrainging order which she has every right to do because it's her house.
ok anyway...um...haha other than that i guess i'm ok, final tomorrow and thursday at 3 and then i'm done.
hope everyone else is alright
if you do pray, could you please pray for my cousin and her two little girls, so she can stay strong.
thank you much.
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| It's that time of year again... 2004-12-07 13:45:16 ET |
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I'm weird and I always send out xmas cards...if ya want one feel free to PM me your addy.
If not...then um..don't haha.
Umm...merry chipmas everybody
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| I finally got meself registered... 2004-12-02 08:23:39 ET |
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Spring 2005 will be my last semester at Indiana State University, well that is if IUPUI ever answers any of my emails about registering there. They keep telling me how easy it is, but when i try, they tell me I did it wrong..wtf?!
Anyway...so here's how my days will look next semseter..fun fun:
Criminology 396 Research Methods In Criminal Justice MWF
Criminology 315 Correctional Reports and Records TTh
Humanities 190 Intro Religion TTh
Anthroplogy 303 Aspects of Culture: The Serial Killer Culture MW
So yay for me. haha. and now anyone who wants to stalk me....almost can...eek hehe
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| Good news and bad news... 2004-12-01 13:25:48 ET |
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Good news: I got a B+ on my most recent History Exam
Bad news: I didn't do the paper that was due today for History.
Good news: We have an extra credit paper I am going to haul ass to get done ^_^ for History and Psychology
Bad news: The job mom thought she was guarenteed (her friend was putting in a hella good word for her and said he pretty much had the job lined up) sent her a letter today telling her some BS story about why they weren't going to hire her.
Good news: I found lots o' jobs for her to apply to
Bad news: I have a headache and I think my contacts are the reason
Good news: umm....I got nothing haha
Hope everyone had a good day.
peace out!
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