Farewell to a very talented man...    2004-12-29 19:41:51 ET
I almost cried when I read this...:

"...“I’m immensely saddened by the passing of not only a friend and colleague, but a legendary figure of 20th-century show business,” said Dick Wolf, creator and executive producer of the four “Law & Order” series. “He was one of the most honored performers of his generation. His loss is irreplaceable.”..."

Taken from MSNBC.Com

 I will NEVER understand people...    2004-12-28 18:31:44 ET
So i get an email from an old high school friend of mine and she has it titled "OHMIGAWD" haha yeah she can't spell but if you knew her you'd understand...anyway i figure it's cause she got a christmas card from me...so i read on and figure out why that's what it's titled.

she recently heard from a friend of hers that a kid we went to high school with killed his girlfriends 14 month old daughter. WTF?! Ok i didn't "know" this guy but i "knew" him sorta...i knew enough to know he was kinda weird. pretty mcuh a loner (which so were a lot of people i knew) and he was always kinda scrawney up until about sophomore/junior year when he started lifting weights (cause they had a weight class at our school, kinda like study hall only you lifted). Then he got really really buff but he still pretty much was super quite and hung with all the "rednecks" and yes i can call them that cause that's what they were, they weren't country boys or cowboys they were friggin rednecks.

anyway, here's the news story....if you pray or whatever you do, please do it for this little girl, well that and tha ti dont ever cross paths with him cause i'll beat the living crap out of him.

"A Plainfield toddler beaten on the day after Christmas because she would not stop crying had been hurt before in an incident investigated by child-welfare authorities, police said.

The child died of her latest injuries Monday, and her mother's boyfriend has been arrested.

Arianna Ingram, 14 months old, had been in critical condition after being taken to Riley Hospital for Children after she was struck on the head and then grasped by the neck Sunday morning, Plainfield Police Capt. Darel Krieger said. He said the girl had suffered a fractured skull.

Nathan Clay Embs, 23, the boyfriend, was arrested on preliminary charges of battery and child neglect. Embs was not the girl's father. Police said the child's mother, 23-year-old Ivy N. Ingram, was not charged, but an investigation continues.

The two share a house in the 300 block of Ellis Street in Plainfield with a friend, 27-year-old Jackie Rinberger, police said. Records show the address was previously the home of Embs' family and that he has lived there at least since he was a teen.

Detectives found evidence that the child had been injured previously and learned that Hendricks County child-welfare officials had been called before, Krieger said. He said the local Child Protection Services office was closed Monday, so details of the previous case were not immediately available.

Calls Monday to the home and to the state Family and Social Services Administration, which operates Child Protection Services offices throughout the state, were not immediately returned.

A police report of Sunday's incident said Ingram told officers that she did not know how the girl was injured.

"She stated that Arianna had been sick throughout the night, and she had let (her daughter) sleep in bed with her," the police report said.

Embs told police he became upset when the child would not stop crying, Krieger said.

The girl was in bed with her mother, Krieger said, but the boyfriend wanted to put the child in a portable crib in the same room.

"He picked the baby up, and she started crying," Krieger said. "He was trying to get her to calm down. She wouldn't, and he got angry and smacked her head against the tubular railing of the portable crib."

The child continued to cry.

"(Embs) put his hand around her neck. He put pressure around her neck," Krieger said. "He heard her sigh, and she quit crying, so he got in bed."

The mother was in the room at the time and told Embs, "Don't be so rough," Krieger said.

The couple got up an hour later, police said, and called for an ambulance when they found the child unresponsive...

...Embs was arrested Sunday on preliminary charges of Class B felony battery, serious bodily injury to a child; and B felony neglect of a child.

Police said the prosecutor's office would file more serious charges today: battery of a child causing death and neglect of a child causing death, both Class A felonies."

--taken from Indystar.com--

what happened to MURDER! but i know why that's what he was charged with, thanks to my lovely law class that i got a C in. But still geesh, he friggin strangled her.

anyway, now my graduating class is up to 1 dead, 1 in prison for killing a kid, and countless with drug related offenses, countless with bebes but no bebes' daddies..and a few at school haha



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 Happy Holidays Everyone!    2004-12-23 20:41:50 ET
No matter what your holiday is, I hope it's happy.

And to all my friends out there...

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 it's me again (might not follow unless you read previous message)    2004-12-17 20:59:15 ET
so things haven't settled down.

once we get them settled something happens to unsettle them..and that something is lenny pulling crap.

melissa finally told him that he's not to call anymore and that they will talk "maybe" once a week, but no more than that. I guess he's supposed to go through her sister from now on. So yeah after she told him that he's been in contact with Angie (her sister) every day since. he came by here and left 2 bags of clothes for Olivia that he had just bought her at walmart. Spent $100 on her, which he NEVER would have spent on her before nor would he have let melissa spend that much on her.

then he started crap with Angie, boo-hooing to her about "i need help" and all his feel sorry for me bullshit. he's trying to play like the fact that he has depression is his only problem. the reason she left him wasn't the depression...it was his controlling behavior...dur!

so anyway...today i was home alone cause i'm sick as a dog (had a temp of 101 pretty mcuh all day yesturday (which yay that was fun taking a final with a temp of 101 and after just throwing up..whoo!)

anyhoot..i'm home...and around 5-6-ish, the doorbell rings and i'm like no way not answering the door when i'm here by myself, all sick, and looking like crap. so i go upstairs to see who it is out the window and it's this rickety (hehe) old red and grey van with 2 guys in it, well one was at my door but anyhoot. so i called melissa and asked if she knew anyone with such a van and she said no, well while i'm on the cell phone with melissa the van pulls off and from my moms room i can see the cul-de-sac that my streets ends up as and i saw it stop there and wait, and then our house phone rings and gee guess who, it's lenny. i didn't listen to the message right then, was too busy watching weirdo van, which after he leaves a message drives off and goes around to the house behind us (can't see it anymore) then drives off again after a few minutes cause another car pulled around prolly made it move.

so i'm freaking out trying ot figure out if lenny has someone casing the place to see if we are here. Angie came over and went to find the van, found it and it was in the neighborhood next to ours going door to door (why they didn't go door to door in my neighborhood i don't get but whatever) so it's unlikely they are related to lenny in any way. but you never know

so anyhoot i listen to the message and it's him once again threatening "i have a legal right to see the kids and it's been a week an di want to see them" well jackass maybe you should have thought of that when you LIVED WITH THEM and still went a week (or longer) without seeing them. Hell he didn't find out what Emilee was getting for her birthday from him and melissa til she friggin opened it.

so angie called him and told him to back off cause melissa's lawyer told him that her and the kids aren't to be around him til they go to court because they don't know how "stable" he is.

and mom is to the point now where if he shows up here again or calls here again she's going to get a restraining order, and melissa said the same thing about if he tries to contact here again too.

so *crosses fingers* hopefully melissa will stick by this stuff and not go feeling sorry for him the next time he cries to her with some stupid sob story about how he's depressed and blah blah.

i know what depression is, i was treated for it, and i'm all better, and that's fine and dandy, but that's not the issue, he was controlling from day 1, t hat is the issue.

sooooo i'm done rambling now haha..can't breathe...stupid colds...

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