| Bugger... 2004-07-05 19:24:51 ET |
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Found out some interesting information today..
New Info #1: My Great-Aunt (my Oma's sister) is a Pyro. Apparently she's been setting fires in the new retirement community she lives in. We aren't positive she did it yet, but the police had been watching her for a while and they went in yesturday and arrested her. So ...interesting stuff. Aunt Helga is in jail. *shakes head*
New Info #2: My cousin's husband really is an asshole...We all met yesturday for a cookout at my Great-Aunt Ellie's house. This is my cousin Melissa's family (mom and dad and sister, her brother wasn't there). Anyway her husband has always been anti-social around the family. Normally though he'll come around but just make her leave WAY early. But yesturday they stayed for a while, but here's what he did...
arrived, went into living room, sat in Uncle Charlie's chair, turned on TV. sat there til food was ready, got food, came outside for about a minute or so after eating, then went back inside for more food. and back into the living room tow atch more tv.
now Melissa's explaination for this was "he's not used ot a family like ours, where we get along so well and are so close" and her dad said "yeah well he's not goign to get used to it sitting away from us is he?"
they've been married going on...6 years or something like that. and he's known our family for a good many years before him and Melissa even got married. so his excuse of he's not used to it, is bullshit if you ask me. just another of his usual cop-outs to get people to feel sorry for him or whatever. the man is 30 years old (if not older) if he can't adapt to a new situation then he's shit out of luck.
the thing that really got to me though was the fact that lately i've been noticing a change in Melissa's behavior. more and more he's controling what she does and stuff. and then yesturday apparently he just proved that fact even more.
Now it's one thing to wear your hair a certain way because you know someone likes it that way, but also because you like it that way. it's another thing all together to be sitting there infront of your family with your hair up in a pony tail and have your husband pull out the ponytail holder and look at you and say
"dont wear your hair like that, i don't like it" and toss the ponytail holder across the table.
mom saw him do it, dont' know who else saw him do it, but i wasn't out there, and he's damn lucky i wasn't out there.
i'm sorry but you don't control how i wear my hair 24 horus a day, if i'm hot and i wanna pull it up, well then dammit it's my hair and i'm going to pull it up. I can almost guarentee that he's the reason she's growing her hair back out again. He won't let her get the girls hair cut either.
olivia pitches a fit everytime you go to touch her hair cause it's all matted up, i'm sorry but if it was my kid i'd cut her hair, i know it's a big thing for some people to cut kid's hair, but she's 4 and if she's not going to brush it and wont' let melissa brush it, then it's getting cut off, cause she's just whining bout it being tangled anyway.
so yeah ok that's it for my rant about how much i don't like my cousins husband. i rant about that a lot dont i? sorry...
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| yes, it's that time of year again 2004-07-04 18:21:06 ET |
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that time of year when people set shit on fire and throw it into other people's yards.
the time when even the police officer in my neighborhood doesn't care if people are shooting bottle rockets at my house (since fireworks are illegal in indiana and all)
that time when people get together, for fun, laughter, and hotdogs on a grill (if you're into that sort of thing)
that time when families come together to enjoy somet time together and some good ol' fashioned beer drinking fun..
that time when i'm reminded of how much...
my life sucks...
here's to a great 4th of july, from one lame person to another...
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| NOOOOOOOOOoooooooo 2004-07-03 19:04:36 ET |
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pulled my FAVORITE wallet out of my purse yesturday...
mind you, i've only had it..a month tops...
it's broke!!!!
the little button to open it fell off :( it's all gimp now.
i can still open it i still have the button but i have to keep it in a different wallet and hten pull it out and look all ghetto trying to get into my id case *cries*
so...RIP wallet:
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| Kandess said I should make a "girl list" so i did...cause i'm Lame 2004-07-01 23:38:02 ET |
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Do You Know A ... (if yes elaborate)
*Abigail - My friend Bre's daughter
*Amanda - I used to work with an Amanda...she was they "hey look at my new undewear" girl
*Aryanna - My friend's little sister and what i'd like to name my daughter
*Ashley - Went to school with one she's...weird.
*Barbara -
*Becca - Worked with a becca
*Brianna - My friend Bre's name, but spelled different
*Bridget - Went to school with a Bridget
*Caitlin -
*Charlotte - my great-aunt
*Catherine -
*Dakotah -
*Dana - My old friend's sister
*Danielle - Worked with a Danielle
*Dara - My best friend in 5th grade
*Deborah -
*Edith -
*Eleanore - My other great-aunt
*Elisabeth - *gags* worked with one
*Fatimah - My friend Dullah's sister
*Fiona -
*Gabrielle - little cousin
*Gina -
*Gloria -
*Gwen -
*Hailey -
*Hannah -
*Heather - Went to school with a Heather..*gags*
*Heidi - Worked with a Heidi..*pulls out shotgun*
*Isabelle -
*Jacky -
*Jamie - Went to ISU with a Jamie..odd girl
*Jane -
*Janice - High School friend
*Kandess - hehe UnLabeled..
*Karen -
*Kayla - Vivi's little girl :)
*Kriquet - from high school..her middle name was Katherine and her last name started with a K as well...her parents..were stupid.
*Laura -
*Leah -
*Leslie - Went to school with a few
*Lexis -
*Linda -
*Lindsey -
*Madeline -
*Madison -
*Megan -
*Meredith - A few were at my school..popular name
*Mindy -
*Naomi -
*Natalie -
*Natasha - dur! well myself and i used to work with a lady who's daughter's name was natasha
*Nichole - Mom's friend
*Nina - cousin in Germany
*Olivia - lil cousin
*Paige -
*Patricia -
*Paula -
*Rachel - ms ra-ra (labelmegeek)
*Rebbeca -
*Regan -
*Sara - moiself's nickname, as well as (diff spelling) a few other people I know.
*Samantha - Fox..friend of mine from high school
*Stacey -
*Tammy -
*Tracy - lady i've known my whole life
*Tricia -
*Valerie - *gag* friend matt's ex..whore
*Viola - hehe best friend
*Wanda -
*Wendy -
*Whitney -
*Yasmine -
*Yvonne - mom's friend
*Zoe - Friend Bre's other daughter.
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